I have known my husband for the last 15 years, we’ve been dating for the last 10 years.
I thought that my husband and I were meant to be together for the rest of our lives. I thought he was my soulmate after a few years of having him as a close friend. Then when we started to date and we both fell in love with each other, it seemed to confirm all of my past beliefs. But when you’re young it’s easy to get caught up in a lot of that fairy tale romance type thinking. As time went on we got closer and we eventually got married. I thought that this was the man I would spend the rest of my life with, I was convinced. But I learned fairly quickly that my husband had issues he had been hiding from the beginning. It’s unfortunate that we started to fight about a year into our marriage. I kept wanting to have children but my dad had a serious talk with me one day and told me that I should consult with a divorce attorney before trying to have children with my husband. Even though I don’t want to divorce my husband, I understand why it’s important to talk to a divorce attorney now before children are brought into the situation. End up having to divorce my husband and find somebody else, so I will start talking to divorce attorneys tomorrow. Understand my rights and what could happen if I decide to leave my husband. Hopefully the divorce lawyer can help me with those questions.