My wifey doesn’t listen to me anymore

I’m not sure what it is lately, but our wifey plus I have been consistently bickering.

All of us are bickering appreciate siblings would, plus it’s usually about the smallest issues that most people wouldn’t even bconnect at; Like our wifey was mad that I left a single fork in the home office sink, stupid stuff appreciate that.

Then the people I was with and I got into a fight later on about getting the wrong shade of yellow cover plus sheets. I try to rest her down plus explain why I guess the way I do, but I guess appreciate she doesn’t listen to me anymore, which is unfamiliar because she used to be such a good listener. Lately, 1 of our main fights seems to be our Heating, Ventilation, plus A/C component. She believes the people I was with and I are spending way too much money on our central a/c unit. Our bill is about $295, which isn’t cheap, but I’ve heard worse. I personally believe that as long as the people I was with and I aren’t using it 24/7, then it’s no sizable deal. It has gotten to the point that she only wants me to spend money the Heating, Ventilation, plus A/C bill. She purchased a ductless mini cut a/c, plus she plans on only using that for heating plus cooling. I believe that is ridiculous, but she won’t listen to what I have to say. I’m not sure what to do at this point, because the people I was with and I are disagreeing on everything, plus she won’t listen to me. Our birthday is coming up, plus I got her a gift she had been wanting for a long time, I’m hoping that will maybe heal some wounds we’ve both caused.

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