My husband doesn’t listen to myself and others anymore

I’m not sure what it is lately, but our husband plus I have been consistently bickering.

Both of us are bickering like siblings would, plus it’s usually about the smallest issues that all the people wouldn’t even baffix at, but like our husband was mad that I left a single fork in the kitchen sink, stupid stuff like that. Then all of us got into a confrontation later on about getting the wrong shade of yellow cover plus sheets. I try to rest his down plus explain why I know the way I do, but I know like he doesn’t listen to myself and others anymore, which is strange because he used to be such a good listener. Lately, a single of our main fights seems to be our Heating, Ventilation, plus A/C component. She believes all of us are spending way too much money on our central a/c unit! Our bill is about $295, which isn’t cheap, but I’ve heard worse. I personally know that as long as all of us aren’t using it 24/7, then it’s no large deal. It has gotten to the point that he only wants myself and others to spend money the Heating, Ventilation, plus A/C bill. She bought a ductless mini split a/c, plus he plans on only using that for heating plus cooling. I know that is ridiculous, but he won’t listen to what I have to say. I’m not sure what to do at this point, because all of us are disagreeing on everything, plus he won’t listen to me. Our birthday is coming up, plus I got his a gift he had been wanting for a long time, I’m hoping that will maybe heal some wounds we’ve both caused.

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